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Writer's pictureNicole Lawrence

Destination Wedding Checklist: 5 Expert Tips on How to Plan Your Dream Destination Wedding

Updated: Aug 10


Oceanfront wedding ceremony gazebo at Hilton Rose Hall with elegant chairs and floral arrangements.
Stunning oceanfront gazebo setup for a destination wedding at Hilton Rose Hall, Jamaica. Image courtesy of Playa Resorts Media Gallery via MediaValet.

Embarking on the journey of how to plan a destination wedding can feel like navigating uncharted waters. With the different wedding and travel aspects to consider, it's easy to make common mistakes without expert guidance.


As a seasoned destination wedding travel agent specializing in Caribbean and Mexican destination weddings, I've compiled five indispensable tips to ensure your planning experience is not only smooth but also stress-free.


5 Tips on How to Plan a Destination Wedding


1. Choose a resort that is a good fit for YOU and YOUR  guests' needs:


Families enjoying poolside cabanas at Hilton La Romana Family Resort, surrounded by palm trees and ocean views.
Families relaxing by the poolside cabanas at Hilton La Romana Family Resort, perfect for accommodating diverse wedding guests. Image courtesy of Playa Resorts Media Gallery via MediaValet.

One of the top questions you might ask when learning how to plan a destination wedding is, ‘Are destination weddings selfish?’


The answer is obviously ‘NO,’ but one way to show your guests that you are thinking of their comfort and enjoyment is to select a resort wedding venue that will meet the diverse needs of your wedding group.


Account for dietary restrictions, physical limitations, and children's requirements. Knowing these details ensures your chosen location caters to everyone, making the overall experience enjoyable for all.


2. Ensure smooth travel with airport shuttle service:


Luxury private shuttle service vehicle ready to transport guests for a destination wedding.
Ensure your destination wedding guests arrive in style with a luxury private shuttle service. Photo by Zandatsu via Pexels.

When figuring out how to plan a destination wedding, don’t overlook the importance of smooth travel arrangements.


There’s nothing worse than traveling for hours, finally landing at the airport, and then not having a ride available to take you to the resort as quickly as possible.


Arranging roundtrip airport shuttle service for your guests is a game-changer. Don't leave it to chance or your guests; take the initiative to guarantee stress-free travel from the airport to the resort.


Avoid the hassle of last-minute arrangements and start your wedding celebration on a positive note.  


3. Recommend guests arrive two days before the wedding:


Guests enjoying a relaxed dinner at Asiana Restaurant in Hilton Playa Del Carmen before the destination wedding.
Guests enjoying a dinner at Asiana Restaurant, Hilton Playa Del Carmen, as part of their destination wedding experience. Arriving early allows guests to unwind and connect before the big day. Image courtesy of Playa Resorts Media Gallery via MediaValet.

An essential tip when learning how to plan a destination wedding is to give your guests the gift of time by suggesting they arrive two days before the wedding.


This ensures any unforeseen travel hiccups won't jeopardize their attendance. By planning ahead, you mitigate the risk of guests missing your special day due to travel delays.


4. Guarantee your guests have a room by holding rooms in advance:


Luxurious one-bedroom suite at Hilton Playa Del Carmen, ideal for accommodating wedding guests.
Luxurious one-bedroom suite at Hilton Playa Del Carmen, where securing room blocks ensures your guests have the perfect accommodations. Image courtesy of Playa Resorts Media Gallery via MediaValet.

As you figure out how to plan a destination wedding, don’t forget the importance of securing a block of rooms in advance.


I know of a wedding couple who did not hold rooms for their destination wedding, and the resort sold out before most of their wedding group could book at the resort she had chosen.


NOT GOOD! Securing a block of rooms at the resort not only ensures your guests have accommodation but also comes with perks like free upgrades and events.


By taking control of room reservations, you avoid potential booking errors and capitalize on cost-saving opportunities.


5. Make your life easier by working with a destination wedding travel agent:


Destination wedding travel agent consulting with a client over the phone while using a laptop.
Working with a destination wedding travel agent can simplify your planning process and ensure a stress-free experience. Photo by Polina Tankilevitch via Pexels.

If you want to truly master how to plan a destination wedding without the stress, collaborating with a destination wedding travel agent is key.


For the ultimate stress-free experience, work with a professional who excels in both travel logistics and wedding planning.


Their expertise, connections, and first-hand knowledge can save you time and money and offer unique venue recommendations, ensuring your destination wedding is a dream come true.


Bonus Tip: Don't Book Your Wedding Directly With the Resort:


Comparison of a stressed couple and a happy couple highlighting the difference between booking directly with a resort and using a destination wedding travel agent.
Avoid the stress of complex contracts by booking with a destination wedding travel agent and enjoy a worry-free experience.

This bonus tip goes along with Tip number 5. Avoid the pitfalls of booking directly with a resort!


Believe me, many couples try it, but they usually quickly regret it with poor communication and complex contracts that make you liable for just about EVERYTHING!


For more details on why this can be a risky move, check out my blog article, What You Need To Know Before You Book Your Destination Wedding Directly With a Resort.


Let a destination wedding travel agent take this off of your shoulders. They will navigate complex contracts, secure room blocks, and ensure your guests' specific needs are met, preventing potential headaches and financial penalties.


By giving yourself ample time for meticulous planning, you can minimize the risk of mishaps and maximize the joy of your destination wedding.


You may want to hit the easy button and just hire a destination wedding travel agent, like me, to help ensure the journey is smoother and your dream wedding becomes a reality without the stress.


If you're feeling stuck or overwhelmed and would like to get your destination wedding all figured out, then I encourage you to use this link to schedule a free 30-minute strategy session with me today.


Let’s see if we can get your destination wedding figured out so that you can focus on the fun of your BIG DAY instead of the stress!  Save Your Spot Now!

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